Hello beautiful spirit,  come with me on journey as I tell you some of my personal tales how I live and work as medium with spirit . And some happenings with my gifted children , there is life beyond the grave.

Hello beautiful spirit,  it’s Norma you know Forevrgoddess.  come with me on journey as I tell you some of my personal tales of how I  live and work as medium . And some happenings with my gifted children have experienced , there is life beyond the grave.

As the leaves of autumn begin to show in the surrounding Hills and local mountains of Paris , Idaho. Our family loves the autumn season. We decorate our home every Sept 23^rd for past 12 years for me and husband wedding anniversary. We love to decorate for Halloween or autumn season every year , though my daughter trinity would love to decorate for Halloween all year round, which I agree I would too. lol

The house begins to have a Hum from 1^st   day of September , as the veil to spirit world is slowly opening every 10 days stronger , the veil will be fully opened on Halloween ,  slow begin to close as the days after  Dia de los Muertos in November 2.

 The hum I feel in  my home is because the spirits create energy , I work with spirits as intuitive medium and clairvoyant.  many of these spirits that my clients look for consoling after a loss of departed one or, to find closure for passing of love one, they ask for insight from their family spirits to help guide in their life, or know and feel the connection that there is life beyond the grave. I will share some unique heart warming stories, funny, awe inspiring moments that I share and my family when working with spirits.

My mother melba was medium, empath and gift woman, though she had her fears growing up in central American country, I feel her Spanish catholic upbringing may have set the track to cause her to be bit fearful of her gifts, but she has helped many of our family over the years , she was always the one many looked to for help, she worked closely with her  saints and rosary ,   she knew who to pray to or what herbs to help cure any disease. She never turned any one away. 

My father Edward was always loved to hear and learn about the paranormal as a kid I remember in 1980’s to watch any shows on paranormal event esp during the Halloween season. I found out after his passing he was clairvoyant and was able to see spirits.   As child I tried to understand the Paranormal, ghost hunting evidence, movies,  TV shows that spoke of spirit coming to talk to living.

 I loved to read book on ghost stories,   one of my favorite  Books was “ Haunted stories :  by  Michael Norman and Beth Scott . if I remember  they have 4 books,  I have some of them in  my personal book collection.

 I will share some of my experiences with my clients spirit family, I will change names to protection the families.

My personal Spirit experiences while growing up

One of my first few experiences with spirit was a few months after my father Edward had died in 1992. He was older when I was born and he had some health issues that he could not  recover from. The days after his death and funeral,  my parents home was quiet and everyone was grieving. I remember one morning one my way to high school  I felt like I was being followed, in Pasadena a big city,  you never know.   I Turned around to see if I had some following me, I felt a rush of wind that scattered some leaves of evergreen trees across the ground, as I looked over head I saw group of 12-15 crows fly over head then I heard my father voice call me name. it was surprise yet thrilling moment.

I had another moment with my mother, this was a think ½ year or year before my dad passed away both my parents were home, my siblings were in bed asleep with their families. The House was quiet, I was in the kitchen working one my home work for high school. It was about  almost 10 pm, we have a  big kitchen window next to kitchen sink, that faced my neighbor home. I heard a big slammed against the window like someone had threw something. The window was vibrating from the impact. It spooked me I called my mother from down the hall way. My mother and cousin Rosa was up from el Salvador.  Me and mom peeked from back door to see if someone was back there nothing. Then all of us went to front  living room, my mom and cousin peeked front door to look to see if there was some there.  There was no one. My mom said when she look to close the door she looked toward the couch she saw in spirit her uncle Manuel. He was just sitting on the couch. With that my mom rushed back into the kitchen and told us what she saw. The next morning my mom called to her family there and found out my mother’s uncle Manuel had passed away last night.

Now these were only experience I that I can remember from my parent home, though they weren’t the only ones. I know my sister and my sister in law had mentioned in passing how they would hear my father bell would ring when he needed something when he was at the back of the house, in master bedroom. Or we could her some time of my grandmother who was sick cry from her bed, because she was in pain. They both mentioned it would happen different times of year.

Living here in Paris , Idaho I had my fair share of ghostly experiences. Robert my husband, parent’s home is  haunted  it was at one point a gas station, with garage and rock shop with Robert grandparents. My father in law would tell me of cabinet doors open and close when he would get up at night for smoke a cigarette. or another time see people walk-in from garage and go into his bathroom, he see them from his chair that faces his tv, he rush to find the person he saw only to find no one but him and his dog snoop.  My first experience was  I heard the loud boom in the home during my first few night living there. Rob and his dad would be deep sleep, I needed to go the potty that night.  Robert mother had died 1997 due to health issues. As I walked up to bathroom rob mother spirit appeared to be blocked me from the hallway to bathroom, from beyond the bathroom was  Rob’s dad bedroom . I felt she was afraid I meant ill will to her husband.  I calmly told her I mean no harm to anyone. I loved Robert, but  I needed to go the bathroom , I told her I’ll pee the floor if she liked. She vanished away, and I went to the bathroom.  Though I did get a chuckle from my father in law the next morning. Lol

Before me and rob found our new home, we moved back into my Rob’s dad home after we lived in Paris apartment. A month after we got married.  because of the heating problems and  I was pregnant with my son Gabe at that time. This moment remind me of my return trip from California. I just had my baby shower with my siblings and relatives in my sister home in California. I was about 7 months pregnant. My mother had passed away in 2009 problems from  her surgery. She passed away peacefully.   She never met my new husband Robert, only my siblings.

 I was little bit sad, that day ,and I was missing my mother.  The bedroom was make shift in old garage , since it had wood burning stove to keep us warm In winter. The bed was facing  the back door of the house. We had small window which had a juniper bush in front . the door has screen door, I was summer time it was may. It was about 12 pm and hot, but room was cool. I laid on bottom of  my bed , thinking of my mother I said “mom I wish you were here.” All of sudden the room filled with beautiful perfume it was Elizabeth Arden red door, my mother favorite perfume. I smelled and feel swirled by this perfume. I felt a strong  push from the side of my belly, felt like someone was touching my son . I cried ”Mom are you touching Gabriel?”  I stood up, Gabriel started to kick  hard in my belly and suddenly as I smell the perfume  in poof it was gone. I was shocked to feel my mother touching my son. I was joyous for this moment

My Personal Spirit experiences with my Family

Now we have been in my home for 11year almost 12 years we moved in shortly after this moment in may. To an  older trailer home, and it has it’s  days were either hot in summer or cold at times in winter. But we love our home no matter what. 

 Things have happened over the years, but I do recall these past 4 years , since I opened up to my home  and started to do  Spirit reading s for clients, friends and family. For while now, I’ve been careful to take on clients with wanting to speak with love one who has passed away. I always ask that the who passed away is at least 6 months since their passing and the person/client  who wishes to contact their family be ready . I need them to be sure they are ready to hear the message from their deceased loved one. As well clients been going thru 5 stages of grief and emotionally ready to move forward with this reading.    I will also tell you about the experience my children have had seen and feeling spirits within our home.

When I first decided to open my door for doing spirit reading, I took some of close friends and clients from my boutique to offer a small reading at no charge. Each person I handpicked to see if they would be ready to do the reading. Many were ready to move forwards and some had sometime between both my clients and person that passed away some over a few years.

I had close connection with one of my cousins named maria , she has come for reading right from the start, her brother Juan had passed away years, when I live in Pasadena ca. it was sudden death, which I caused pain for her and  my aunt family. I remember we have talked of doing a spirit on the phone one night. Gabriel and one of his friends {a girl who lived across  the way from our home.} Was playing with Gabe in trinity room with toys . it was becoming dark Gabe and little girl told me they saw a golf ball size orb of gold light come down from ceiling,  And the orb disappeared into the air.  I giggled a bit when kids came racing into the kitchen, the girl got spooked and went home. Me and Gabe discussed about what he saw and felt. He grew up with me and rob watching Ghost adventure, destination truth and other tv shows about paranormal. Gabe used word “Orb”, which we know can mean spirit energy, and color gold was good sign of angelic spirit. I took a moment when Gabe went to get one his tablet to watch Netflix. In quiet moment I did a quick reading who was here, I got my cousin maria , brother, Juan , he had a message for his sister.

Gabe has seen many spirit orbs either in his  room or around our home. Most of them white or gold. Sometimes,  when I am  talking  to  my clients about  doing spirit reading or they have dreams of love ones who have pass away . We  will see shadow figures or orbs.  Both Gabe and trinity are gifted and they can see spirits. Gabe is I consider is empath, clairvoyant, and one will be able to pull energy from things. Trinity I consider her healer and clairvoyant.  My husband is also gifted , he has some of both my children gifts.  There have been nights when trinity was 3 or 4 year old would wake me up to tell me, she saw 3 or 4  faeries dancing above our bed. This was when trinity was learning to talk more freely { since both her brother and trinity are autistic}  Our home can be active with spirit energy any time of year not just autumn season.  I had clients  named  Michelle who was interested in spirit wanted me to contact her older sister Beth, they were close when she was young, but she mentioned her sister Beth,  one day died not sure why or how. She asked me to contact her.

7 Steps I take for my Spirit Readings

 When I do the spirit readings I do in 7  steps. I get photo and name of person { spirit}who I will try to contact . I ask my clients what they wish to know, ask any questions? Comments? Wanting closure? Whatever  they need. But tell my client I will not ask question like: about who dying next? If there were any wills? Start fights or Disputes over the past events esp in negative situations.  I want my client to be able to find peace and have closure to spirit passing. And help reveal and set thing in proper order so both the living and dead be at peace.

The 2^nd step is I call upon the spirit by their name , I ask my angel Sophia or  my Goddesses to please  bring forth this spirit ,3^rd step  I light a tea candle and explain to spirit as this candle flame  is glowing  they are welcomed here, when I am done with them, I will ask them to leave and I pinch or blow out the candle flame. Then I begin with 4^th step pre-reading  { which vary with all my intuitive readingsbut are always included } I ask the spirit how will they present themselves to their loves one as spirit{ smoke, shadow figures, cold spots, etc} each spirit vary do to the spirit ability and strength. Each spirit can chose how they come across to their love ones and can show themselves in many forms each time different.

I ask them to talk to me and we discuss the reading the questions the client has and what answers the spirit willing to give. I ask the spirit if they have any messages they wish to give to my clients, I even take messages of their spirits in family who wish to pass a message on.  Each spirit varies to me , when they come,  I will  hear their voice, see images in my mind, see them in my home, I  can feel the emotions, or even a glimpse to moment in time, when the spirit life was living being. I write all these notes down , to use later in  my reading. When I’m done with pre-reading I work on the 5^th step

5^th step is for me shuffle and place my tarot cards on my desk as I shuffle the cards I tell the spirit what we will do next and if they want to know what my tarot card are. I give brief information to help pass messages with cards to tie in the pre-reading into the layout. The template I use is my personal and custom design layout. We pull 10 cards plus 1 card in case their more insight to gain insight for the reading. Once I’m done with cards I write down the order of cards and ask the spirit for any final messages.

 If they are done I tell them it’s time to leave, and I will call upon them then next day for  6^th step  and pinch out the candle. Then I thank  the spirit for coming, I gentle ask the spirit leave.  I make sure with my Goddesses or angels to escort them out.   So they don’t hang around and spook my kids or me .        In past I did it all in one day but nowadays I take 2 days so I’m not so tired spirit energy can drain when trying to manifest themselves to me.

 The day of pre- reading I will contact my client and tell them what I found out briefly and if they had any further questions with information I have gained for them, most of time my client have more questions. On day 2 { next day}  I ask my angel Sophia and My Goddesses to  please call the spirit again to my home,  relight the candle, begin to type the meaning and translation for cards with spirit help on my laptop.  Once I’m done with typing I recheck or errors, then I tell the spirit thank you for coming, pinch out the candle  . I ask my Angel Sophia and my  Goddesses to escort the spirit back to their  bed and out of my home.  I will email  the message to client, in few minutes.

Personal experiences with my Clients Spirit family

Now let’s  go back to Michelle  spirit reading with Beth, as you now know when I call in the spirit there are steps that to do insure a good reading. Michelle told me she wanted to know what happen to hear and if she was her family. Beth was unique spirit she was a bit of challenge, but I got the information for my client.  I called upon Beth I told her this candle flame was for her to be here when I pinch or blow it out she must depart and go back to place of rest. Beth agree to the terms.

So then I began the pre- reading sessions, I told her what questions I had from her sister, she was be vague but gave insight. Then I explained to her I was going to use the tarot cards next.  Beth spirit said to me “ I don’t know those things.” I reassured her it was ok and I would help her and gave different meaning of cards.  spirit  Beth said  “ok I will try.” Once we chose the card and corrected their order. I was done, I began to prepare to type up the reading{ this before I made 2 days plan}, Michelle told before that she would not have time to be contacted after the pre- reading, but to go ahead with reading she would read it after sent.

I could feel as I worked on Beth reading , I had asked for any more messages , there were none. she was bit restless and I felt her roam around my home . when time came I was done I told Beth “ it’s time to leave. “ and proceeded to blow out the candle flame. Beth said “ No!, I like it here !” she proceeded to relight the candle. She relit the candle at least  3 time,  each time I blew out the candle and asked her to leave.. Beth spirit  said “ I like it here I want to stay with you” I told Beth  “ No your going back to bed, and join your family{ Michelle’s family  home}”

She fought me after the 3rd time , I call upon my angels and goddesses , and asked them to gentle remove her from my home. It took a few moments then the house was calm again , I checked there were no sign of Beth spirit.

I promptly email the reading to Michelle and told her of Beth denial to leave my home. I admit I never heard back from her. But you know it may have  spooked her, with what  Beth did. Most people  I believe it would.

Here are 2 quick funny  stories of close friend named Marilyn   she was young girl who was feeling the presence of her father Richard and grandfather Arthur, as of late. I normally do not like to 2 back to back spirit readings esp with same family, normally I like to spread time between both reading to give clients and the spirit .

 When I tell the spirit I’m working with ,  how I can sense spirits, I can see them, I  see them in my mind I can feel them and  hear them. I saw  Grandpa Arthur  cup his mouth with his hand said in loud voice “Hello Can you Hear Me ??”  he said this 2 times, with a big smile on his face and he was laughing.  We both got a chuckle, out of it . I was told later by Marilyn,  her grandpa Arthur,  was considered a jokester, and always had a big smile. Which made my friend Marilyn laugh, was pleased he came thru for the reading.

The Other reading Marilyn passed away was reaching out to her after sometime of his passing , she was feeling his presence at her home. I know it was time to we reach out to Richard. Marilyn told she felt his strong presence. The day I started to work with Richard, he was really strong presence. I was waiting in line to pick up my daughter from preschool, it was cold day. I had promised trinity some French fries from a little market in St. Charles which was another little town near Paris. They had little market. Ga station, that all are attached to restaurant. Richard come thru, we spoke to each other. He mentioned  he a lot to tell her. I had piece of paper and pen and began to  writing the notes, his presence was strong to cause cold spot in front passenger seat. I could reach my hand across and feel the temperance drop. It felt like  he was able to drop temp , similar  you were next to deep freeze that was opened. After about 10 minutes of writing notes, my daughter teacher brought the class to wait for their parent to go home for the day.

 I told Richard to hold a moment, as I went to pick up my daughter, I got trinity into the card and started to drive toward st Charles. Richard began to bug me, telling me I can write his notes while I was driving. I took some note with my right hand as I was watching the road and drive with left hand. But at one one point during the drive I told Richard this too much to write down. He told me “you can do it , I did ,  it’s ok I promise.” I got flustered and told him “I’m sorry, I can’t ! you’ll have to wait” . once I stopped at the  market to pick up trinity French fries. I went back home, I told Richard he would have to wait till I got home. He wasn’t happy and insisted I can do it. I ignored him, once I  got home and settled trinity down with her treat. I went back to work with Richard. When I was done with pre reading I told I needed a break to recharge and sent him home. I sent a text to Marilyn close and mutual  friend Harriet, I told her to call me this evening  with Marilyn so we can talk about Richard pre reading.

That evening Marilyn and Harriet called , and I was giving some of information of pre reading which they were both enjoyed since they both personally know Richard were close to him. They were amazed how he came thru and some of detail I revealed. Then I told him about him insisting I drive and write at the same time. They both a got a chuckle, and said that was truly Richard. I asked the ladies why, Marilyn admitted when Richard was alive being a big tall  man  ,he was able to drive with his knees  and text at the same time. Boy,  was I shocked  ! Both ladies laughed, I was started to chuckle , I  wondered how it would look to see  this in real life. the rest both of these 2 spirit I was able to bring closure for  Marilyn.

 Another time I admit I cannot remember the clients who I did the reading for. We experienced  some poltergeist activity one year for  an evening.  I had done a spirit reading during the days before my children had go home from school. The house was kind of quiet I was watch a movie on tv and  my husband was snoozing in his chair, trinity was sleeping next to me in chair and Gabe was on his tablet or asleep I cannot remember Gabe for sure. Our is trailer so if like rectangle the front of rectangle is front room then the kitchen, my office connects to kitchen the beyond down the short hall each of kids bedroom Gabe then trinity’s and 2 bedroom and bath room.

As the house was quiet, I hear down the hall one of Gabe toy  nerf gun cock back like you getting ready to add dart  and shoot the dart.  The Gun  popped and  something or dart  came into the kitchen floor by the table. I was shocked by the noise , that one of my  corgis, Charlie  got up and went down the hall way. To check out what it was, he didn’t bark or did anything , he went back to hiding spot and when back to sleep. After the pop I look around to see if anyone else noticed or  reacted, no one did . I even looked for the dart under the table, there was nothing but I did hear something hit the floor, which was weird.  this became one of  the turning points for my spirit readings, me and rob.  We  Discussed it would not be a good idea to do any spirit reading during the autumn season.

This one Hitchhiker ghost that came with spirit I contacted for the reading, plus I noticed my home would fill up with more spirit energy when I did more spirits readings around this autumn season. I tell most of my clients that from September 1^st till Dia de los Muertos { November 2^nd} the veil begin thin, every 10 days the veil opens more, it will be  fully open on Halloween  and slow start to close after wards. I decided with my husband it would be best not to spirit readings  till December, so we don’t risk getting any more poltergeist activity. Any other time of the year is perfectly fine, but I do not too many spirit readings within a week 1 or 2 when I do. But I always have people  wanting reading for my other services. I do tell people or my clients that may 1^st Celebrates  Celtic holiday Beltane or Mayday, which was celebrated in olden days. This date the veil to spirit world open again for 2 days the may 1^st eve and  may 1^st  day . the legends state the trooping faeries would come out to celebrate the coming of summer, play trick and cause bit of mischief.  many places in Europe or united kingdom would talk of the legend of these days.

 

Well in closing, I will  present  more stories another day, esp. faeries and nature spirits. We blessed with many who come play and live with our family in our home in Paris. I wish you blessed hallows eve and may the spirit of Halloween bring joy and merriment.

Share your experiences with me , I’d love to hear about it.

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